Nice girls are stressed and overwhelmed. If you want better balance, perhaps it's time to say "No" more often.
Most career women are smart enough to find a partner who values fairness and loves that she is ambitious, opinionated and clever. But finding Mr. Equality is only the first hurdle. You then have to help him stay that way.
In our last blog post, we mentioned the fascinating discovery by Angele Lee Duckworth's research into Grit, that talent and resilience can be found to commonly have an inverse relationship. However, Duckworth also states: "Grit predicts success over and beyond talent. When you consider individuals of equal talent, the grittier ones do better."